If that's really the case, you may wish to reconsider throwing yourself into a threesome. However, my years of reading Nancy Drew have led me to suspect that the more pressing issue concerns your lingering attraction for your good friend. As a general rule, you should establish common rules and resolve any reservations before the group groping gets underway. I would also especially be interested to hear from readers their experiences.Īs far as I'm concerned, you're single (I presume) and you're on the receiving end of the indecent proposal - so your only considerations should be of the carnal kind - such as how can you best position yourself to get the most of the three-way action.įor sensible sex-tiquette regarding triple-team action, I would refer my readers to my " Threesome with a Twosome" article. What should my considerations be? And is this something I should ask my friend about or does he need to be the one to ask after he has figured it out with his boyfriend since he already knows I'm cool with the idea? I'm much more attracted to my friend than his boyfriend and I don't mind a 1-on-1 with him but I don't know if that's where he's prepared to go with me.
Although I don't rule that out, I've a close friendship with this friend of mine and it's not something I want to see go sour. I'm not very sure what his boyfriend thinks although he didn't object to that idea outright. Watching your friend having (and worse, enjoying) sex with his boyfriend may turn you into a crazed bunny boiler - especially if you end up feeling left out.'' ''Group sex can trigger a lot of emotions that may be difficult to deal with.